Is There Sex After 65? Um…85?

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Joan Price wants the world to know that senior sex is way more than affectionate snuggling. Naked At Our Age is a meticulously researched compendium of stories, confessions, and inquiries by real people, along with supportive comments by experts in medicine, psychiatry, and sexuality.

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Caregiver. Can You Be A Good One…Again?

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Mimi had been a devoted caregiver to her first husband throughout four years of terrible disease. For a long time after his death ended their 32-year marriage, Mimi had shied away from new relationships, fearing that at men in her age group would have medical issues. She had been attracted to Stephen partly because he had seemed so healthy.

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Whittling Down The Widowers

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A well-adjusted widower who enters the dating circuit is not trying to replace his lost love, but to build on his earned knowledge of what good relationships can be.

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Love — It’s History.

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After the raw grief has abated, widowed people must face the end of the history they built with a spouse. The product of thousands of events and experiences, that marriage’s mosaic is unique, piquant, poignant — and completed.

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Compassion: The Eldercare Imperative

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When my husband was fatally ill, I felt privileged to care for him and did so with a full heart. Could I (should I?) have feelings for new partner that would encourage me to take care of him with that same kind of intimate attention?

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Pain Is Inevitable, Empathy Is Optional

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If I had met STUNT MAN and fallen immediately, madly in love with him, would my attitude be different? I have no way of knowing, but I like to think it would be. In my view, love is the great provider, and if what it provides is hardship, you do what you must for and with the one you love

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Is There a Shadkhen in the House?

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“As a first move, a phone call would have made me feel too formal and too desperate,” PASHA has told me. “Plus it’s kind of old-fashioned.” He sent me an email, and things are progressing from there. Very nicely.

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