The Curse Of The Bat-Wing Arm

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Bat wings are a heartbreak, but it’s hard to imagine they’d be a deal-breaker in the dating game, that a potential partner would say, “she’s smart, fun, and loving, a marvelous conversationalist, great in bed, but I just can’t deal with the arm flab.”

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BlogHer12: Vibes For The Vixen Vieja

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Young people are SO device-dependent. The idea of limiting sex to mere human interaction may seem to them as archaic as listening to music on a boombox.

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Is There Sex After 65? Um…85?

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Joan Price wants the world to know that senior sex is way more than affectionate snuggling. Naked At Our Age is a meticulously researched compendium of stories, confessions, and inquiries by real people, along with supportive comments by experts in medicine, psychiatry, and sexuality.

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Older Women Younger Men (Reprise)

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Women in their forties, fifties, sixties and beyond are beautiful. Not “beautiful for their age,” but simply beautiful. I want to say hot, too, whatever that means. If it means dynamic, spirited, radiant, and sexually alive, then hot it is.

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Older Women, Younger Men: Danger Zone

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Dating a younger man can be energizing and a real boost to your ego. Until it’s not. The pressure of looking and being young can really undermine those good times.

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Making Love With The Light On

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Foreign-born older men are more tolerant of a senior woman’s body fat. American men are awash in skinny girl media images and think size two is the norm.

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The Upside of Flab

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Bummed about losing your girlish figure?  Me too.  Here’s an excerpt from The Inland Ice,  a short story collection by the wonderful Irish writer Eilis Ni Dhuibhne.    “Older women are the women for me. They are, of course, more flabby. But I prefer flab to anorexia with its inevitable accompaniments — frigidity and a large gang of friends.  With flab [...]

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On Female Perfection

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“I hope you have lost your good looks, for while they last any fool can adore you, and the adoration of fools is bad for the soul. No, give me a ruined complexion and a lost figure and sixteen chins on a farmyard of crow’s feet. Then you shall see me coming out strong.” — George Bernard Shaw to Stella Campbell.

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Computers Are The New Canaries

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Be original when you contact somebody. Don’t ever write “I like your photos, you are so hot!” That is SO offensive (not to say low class). Always write something in your introductory email that shows you’ve read his profile.

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